Soul Mate Synergy

Q: This might seem like a weird question, but some reports that I ran at another website are making me ask it. I have to ask it. Do 4 people get along with 6 people? Can they have a successful relationship? Under Numerology, is there a way for me to tell whether my husband and I have a karmic relationship?

A: 4 people get along famously with 6 people. They are both balanced, even numbers and have many of the same natural priorities; responsibility, care taking, order/esthetic beauty… They are both “earthy” numbers, stable and loyal. They evolve through caring for others. Be careful about all that you read out there in cyberspace.. There is a lot of accidental mis-information and confusion spreading. If you try to assign a planetary personality to a number to fit it into astrology, you get a lot of mis-information. Astrologically, the Moon can be at odds with Mercury but this has nothing to do with whether a *numerological* number 4 is compatible with a *numerological* number 6. I believe you got your Soul Mate Synergy report done with your husband? That report measured the compatibility between each of your aspects and then described your composite numbers (Synergy) which paint a sort of picture of the relationship as if it were a separate entity (which it is!). You didn’t share any of the ‘same’ numbers which usually speak of “love/friendship at first sight”, however, you have mostly compatible numbers (only the Soul Urge numbers are ‘challenged’ by each other and this is more about your inner motivations and dreams: His dreams are more about stability and certainty and yours are more adventurous and risk taking.) All of the rest are perfectly compatible as two unique people sharing a multi-faceted life. You both have Master number Destiny’s too.

The karmic ties that draw soul to soul cannot me limited by astrology and numerology. It’s a forever mystery and I think it’s good that way. We can find ‘hints’ via astrology and numerology, but these ‘methods’ can never fully define the mysteries of Soul Mates. Many times ‘soul mates’ have the most incompatible astrology charts! and their numbers may hint more at the truth of their connection. Are you soul mates who came to work out past hurts? Or are you soul mates who came to support each other on your paths? Are you soul mates who agreed to stay together forever to learn about love and loyalty? Or soul mates who agreed to play a specific role and move on?… I see friendship and support in your numbers with your husband rather than intense ‘karmic’ patterns to be overcome. Your numbers are ‘friendly’ and supportive and there seems to be longevity. That’s not to say that there aren’t difficulties, but just that you are both the types to stick in and work them out. You both instinctively know that you must take the ‘higher road’ due to your Master Number Destinies.

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Q: If I have an 8 for a soul urge # what would tell me what my husband’s soul # is and visa versa. In other words that number tells us our soul urge not our actual soul #. How do you compare? How do we find the # that tells us what we are vs. what we urge? Does having the same expression number mean anything?

A: The Soul Urge tells you both what you desire in your heart and what you are on the soul level. The vowels describe the Soul “you” while the consonants describe the physical you. When we are talking about soulmates – people with whom we have soul ties, there is often a tie between their Soul Urges in some way. Some couples will have a Soul Urge connection *only* and this will often be found among couples who may have nothing else in common, yet can’t be without the other for some inexplicable reason. Co-dependency and other “dysfunctionality” is common here. Connections between the Expressions or Life Paths are another indication of compatibility and this is a very common tie that creates long term relationships. Connections here indicate that long term harmony is likely as the two people basically “see” from the same perspective. It is not as tempestuous as Soul Urge ties and usually endures for the long term. Personality ties are quick and powerful physical attractions that fade quickly if there are no other ties.

Your husbands Soul Urge will be found by getting his numbers at

His Soul Urge tells you what his heart resonates to, as does your Soul Urge. If they are both odd numbers or both even numbers, there is harmony even if they’re not the same. If one is even and the other’s is odd, there is tension that can be very exciting at first and then can become irritating over the long term.

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Soul Mate Synergy is a true labor of Love

Soul Mate Synergy changes and grows.. Even after 26 years of research, writing and consulting others about numerology, I am always absorbing new information, synthesizing it into my knowledge base, moving things around and adding to them to make them better and better.

Soul Mate Synergy readings are unique and exceptional in many ways. No other numerology report in the world digs as deep into your advanced numerological aspects, both the composite and the synastry, to decipher the undeniable, innate soul triggers that attract and weave individuals into the relationships that change their lives.

Soul Mate Synergy relationship reports and all in-depth NumberQuest Numerology readings have depth and detail within an inspirational presentation. All aspects are interpreted based upon the double and sometimes triple digit full number totals as well as any Master Numbers found. Most reports assume that you know nothing and therefore want just the very basics about your numerology profile, but if you’re anything like me – yes – you want to know the bottom line, but you also want to know the details behind that reduced, core number. After all, you are the only one like you in the world. It’s very unlikely that anyone has ever been born with the exact numerical complexity as you have. Not when you look at the in-depth number results. Not when your complete numerological analysis is presented accurately. It doesn’t have to be confusing and it doesn’t have to be boring. The NumberQuest and Soul Mate Synergy reports are never hard work to read and understand. You are presented with the deepest findings in your chart in the most clear and enjoyable online report experience. You will come away with a feeling that you have received real value. You will know more than you did before.

Soul Mate Synergy reports are the only numerology reports in the world to offer several exclusive soul mate determining aspects. Besides thoroughly discussing your name meaning through the core aspects of your Expression, Soul Urge (sometimes called Heart’s Desire) and Personality numbers, as well as your birth date natal influences through the aspects of your Destiny (sometimes called Life Path or Life Lesson) and your Birth Day numbers, the Synergy Report by NumberQuest Numerology is the only numerology report to describe and detail your:

Soul Mate Synergy (Your relationship’s unique purpose)
Magic Wands (The special similarities between you and how you can use these to keep your love growing strong)
Bonus Points (The all important soul mate ties that may or may not be present in your love synergy reading)
Karmic Connections (The karmic ties that bind you and the ways that we are drawn to our karmic matches)
Color Codes (The special hues that resonate with your greatest potential and success. Your lucky colors!)
In-Depth Master Number Help (and how to best use these numbers to your advantage)
In-Depth Testing Number Help (and exactly what you can do to master these challenges once and for all)
Double and Triple Digit calculations (to get to the absolute depth of who you both are)
and more…

The only place to get the Soul Mate Synergy™ report is here at NumberQuest™ Numerology Readings and the Soul Mate Synergy™ report are Labors of Love and have helped many couples and individuals over the years, to discover the deeper meaning of their Life Purpose and the soul dynamics that attract their relationships – both present, past and those that have potential in the future.

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Q: Hi! On those soulmate reports, what if you didn’t know if you had someones full birth name? could you still get some correct information? (with their first and last name?)

A: You can look at your ‘Current Name Synergy report’ – which uses just the current, first and last names for both of you – to get accurate information about your attraction and day-to-day compatibility. Later, if you do get your partner’s birth name information, you would be able to understand a deeper level of compatibility and purpose, soul ties and karmic connections by reading your birth name Synergy report.

To really check out the true ‘Soul Mate’ connections, which can explain the deeper reasons why two people are attracted to one another as well as how they get along over the long term (which is influenced by our deeper nature found in our birth name) you’d have to look at the full names at birth (birth certificate names).

Many people think of themselves, as their ‘Current Name’, [“I am Rick Smith”] however, our original name sets up our life experience and details who we are, what we want and how we get it. [“I am Richard Michael Smith”]. It can be a valuable ‘blueprint’ for learning about who we really are and what our purpose is. When we look for a partner, it is our deepest self that is searching and too often, our current name personality who is ‘finding’. When we meet someone who resonates with our Soul, and our deeper self, there is an inner ‘bell’ that goes off inside. That ‘bell’ is what people refer to when they say, “I just ‘knew’ she was the one I was going to marry”… So the Soul Mate Synergy report can be very useful for understanding important dynamics between both; the Birth Names and the Current Names when you keep the correct perspective about each.

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???Q: Which name should I use for Soulmate Synergy? Our birth certificate or daily names?

There’s a lot of interesting Synergy and compatibility information found in comparing both sets of names: birth certificate name totals and modified or ‘current name’ totals. The birth name influence is always about our deeper selves, while our modified names are more superficial. By superficial, I mean that when we attract a person, job etc.. from it’s resonance only to our modified name, it never feels completely real or permanent. It’s not “soul deep”. But when we attract from our birth ‘essence’ (birth name vibrations), these are are truly significant relationships and experiences in life. They are the experiences that effect us deeply – for better or worse. So unless your modified or current name is of the same vibraton as your birth name, you will experience some confusion between what you attract superficially and what/who truly resonates with your essence. The people and experiences in life that resonate with your birth name vibrations or your Life Path Destiny create the BIG loves, life changes, lessons and evolutionary leaps. To answer your question though, I always recommend you compare your Birth Names (names as they are written on your birth certificates) first and then if you are interested in looking further, read your Current Names Synergy report for more information about your day to day compatibility. Go from inner to outer.

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